This old friend, she thinks I've changed. She "sees a new air about me" And calls it "silent rebel"

She explained that "silent rebel" is her definition of somebody who has a strong pressence, is well known, but stays in the shadows. Someone who has such a bond with others that all they need to do is look at the another person and send the message. Just with a glance. Silent. As if everyone would know exactly what would have been said, but wasn't. Still, one who is wise enough to not aloud the remarks, one who people turn to advice for.

The more i think about it. The more I think it's exactly correct.

But how she could see that, when she says that I've changed?